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Monday, February 6, 2017

POTM: Field Trips

Jellybean Daycare & Preschool will go on 2 or 3 field trips a year. These field trips will be held during hours that the school is closed (usually on weekends). All children and parents are welcome and encouraged to come. Parents will be responsible for their children, the cost of the field trips and transportation there and back. You will be given plenty of notice of our field trips and the costs. This is a fun time for all the families to get together and get to know each other and the staff. 

The above is stated directly in our handbook. Let us know if you have any questions!

Monday, January 16, 2017

Letter From Ms. Jenn: Praising vs. Making Own Conclusions



If you take a step in the classroom, you won't hear a lot of praising, such as "good job", "so pretty", and "that's awesome!" What you will hear are a lot of phrases where we allow the children to build their own self confidence and self reflection. Before you start questioning what I'm talking about, let me explain.

If you think about the times that you say "good job" to your child, what is actually being said? Could more be said to specify what exactly is good about what they did? For example, if your child drew a picture and showed you, you could say "good job."Or you could say "that's a very colorful picture," "that looks like you worked really hard on it," "tell me about what you drew," or even "what is that?" There is so much more that goes into a response like that in comparison to an empty praise like "good job" or "way to go."

Most children go through their young life growing their self confidence where they know when they do good and they are proud of themselves without adults weighing in with their opinion. When a child looks at you for approval all their lives, they don't have any opinion on their own work. Whatever they do, they won't be able to like it themselves and be proud of their own effort. It's important to allow the children to draw their own positive conclusions from their own work so they can build on that throughout their adolescent lives.

Now I don't want you to think that I'm saying to never praise your kids. They still need to know that you believe in them and that you're proud of who they are and you will always be there for them. I'm just saying to fill your praise with meaning and direction. Empty praising teaches your child to always fish for a "good job" from Mom or Dad and to never accept their own opinions and their own pride in their work. Praise that has meaning teaches your child exactly what they did that was good and directs them to think about their own attitude or effort and form an opinion.

This kind of leads into open ended questions and how to approach discussing your child's achievements with them. Rather than saying an empty praise like we were discussing earlier, you could either say a meaningful praise or ask them an open ended question about their work. We mainly ask open ended questions here at Jellybean so we can really discover what the child is thinking and what they intended with their specific project. For example, a child draws a picture and presents it to you. To ask an open ended question, you would say something like "what is that?" or "tell me about what you drew." Depending on their answers, you can proceed to ask questions of that nature. Basically an open ended question is one where it allows the child to think about their answer more in depth and that asks for any other answer other than yes or no. This gets their brains moving and helps make important connections.

There is so much information out there that backs up this line of thinking. If you ever wanted to know more info, all you have to do is ask! We think this works really well to allow the children to develop at their own individual levels all while being stimulated to think of new and exciting things.

Monday, January 9, 2017

POTM: Immunizations

The following comes directly from our handbook:

Jellybean Daycare & Preschool requires that children are up to date on all possible immunizations before attending care. We follow the Center for Disease Control’s immunization schedule. For a copy of the immunization schedule go to http://www.cdc.gov/vaccines/parents/downloads/parent-ver-sch-0-6yrs.pdf.

Monday, December 19, 2016

Letter From Ms. Jenn: Too Much Stuff to Do!

Sometimes it just feels like there is not enough time in a day.  Not enough time to just stop and enjoy a quiet day at home.  Is this because there isn’t enough time or do we, as a society, have too much to do?  I recently noticed this during Halloween and it seems to carry through the whole holiday season.  Parents seem overwhelmed with all the activities there are to do; there are parties at friends' and family’s houses, school activities, a neighborhood get together, church festivities, and things that are happening in your town.  It is hard to decide what takes priority and what to say no to.  You don’t want your child to miss out on anything but at the same time you feel they are missing out on spending time alone with you.
So what do you do?
First we all have to learn that it is ok to say “no.”  This is very hard for many people.  We don’t want our children to miss out on things or we don’t want to hurt anyone’s feelings so we say yes to too many things and stretch ourselves way too thin. This leads to us feeling tired, stressed, and irritable and sometimes not a very fun person to be around.  So do yourself and your family a favor and say “no thank you.” It may seem hard at first but it gets easier and you will feel better having some time to unwind.
Next, make family time and down time a priority and decide what you can say no to. Prioritize things that are most important to you and your family and say no to the rest.  Instead of going out, stay in and have a game day or make a living room tent and read stories.
I remember when my kids were little and having to say no to things and feeling guilty that they were missing out on something. Looking back now I remember how much fun we had hanging out together and how important that time was to our family and our bond that we share together.  Every family is different and requires different things, find out what works best for your family and try not to worry too much about all the other things that are going on.
I found this article that I thought was interesting and thought I would share it with you. Remember that family comes first and that it's always okay to say no.